Happy New Year!

I have to say, even though I try to not wish time away, I’m really looking forward to 2016.

Normally, I get a bit gloomy in January + February because we’re coming off my favorite time of the year {October thru December} to just cold, dark, and damp.

But this year, I’m really excited for 2016.

I spent a lot of 2015 figuring things out, learning, and building foundations. I moved from Washington, DC to Dallas, TX, it was my first year I worked for myself full time, rebranded my business twice, and moved in with my boyfriend in an unfamiliar city.

It was really hard.

I could’ve so easily called quits on a lot of things in my personal + professional life, but I’m so thankful I didn’t. I have a really strong foundation in my business, my new city, and with Stevie to build beautiful things this year.

So now I’m curious, looking back at 2015, were you able to build a strong foundation so you can build what you want in your life this year?

Have you figured out what’s holding you back in getting into a meaningful relationship? Do you know truly how to treat yourself the way you want to be treated? Do you know by what values you want to live your life {And not what your mother, friends, or society thinks}?

If not, it’s okay — I want to help you get there.

In 2015, you may have had zero time to date + so you distracted yourself with your career, running marathons, or Netflix {more about that next week…}.

Or maybe you did date, but you didn’t meet quality men, had unmatched expectations with the ones you did go out with, and then had a series of relationships that went nowhere.

Perhaps you couldn’t shake your ex, didn’t fully process the relationship, and before you know it, you’re right back into old dating patterns.

Though frustrating, we unconsciously stay in these patterns because they are ‘safe.’ You don’t have to do any deeper work to figure out what’s blocking you. {Note: this is 100% normal. You are NOT the only person that does this. Please be easy on yourself.}

But deep down, you know the cycle you’re in isn’t going to get you where you really want to go.

And where you really want to go is to be in a place where dating is fun, you meet great potential partners, and eventually, one of them turns into a long term, committed partnership.

Imagine…

– Having someone to ‘do’ life with

– Being a confident woman who can succeed in her career AND be vulnerable to the right men

– An intimate relationship full of love, support, and trust

Let me be the first to tell you: You can create new dating experiences for yourself in 2016. Dating doesn’t have to be so hard, draining, or time consuming.

So what’s the underlying problem? What’s REALLY holding you back from the relationship you desire + deserve?

It’s not the city you live in or the dating app you use. You aren’t too successful, you don’t make too much money, nor are the men you date the problem. And yes, you do have time to date.

It’s you, m’dear.

I’m not trying to be harsh {though my clients do tell me I’m full of tough love}. It’s just that you haven’t built a strong foundation.

You haven’t done the work to release your blocks or figure out what you REALLY want in a relationship outside of what is cliche. And worse, you’re living in your head, over-analyzing everything, thinking too much about the ifs + the shoulds, and ultimately, psyching yourself out.

Don’t get me wrong, your mind is a beautiful thing: it got you to where you are today. You are a smart, successful woman because of it.

But don’t let it fool you.

It can also be your worst enemy, especially when you are required to listen to your intuition, communicate openly, and be vulnerable.

If you’re ready to get out of your own way + into the relationship you desire this year, I invite you to my free online workshop on creating a new dating paradigm for yourself in 2016.

This workshop will help you get out of your own way + build the foundation you need for a fulfilling relationship.

>>Click here to join us.<<

And stay tuned, on Tuesday, I’m sharing with you the top 3 ways most women get in their own way when it comes to dating + relationships.

Talk to you then, and sending you lots of *tough* love,

Veronica

p.s. – The webinar is on January 12th. Don’t worry if you can’t make it, if you want the info, still sign up + I’ll send you the recording.

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