Let’s get right to it. Here’s the truth about manifesting love:
Lately, I’ve noticed a lot of stuff out floating around on the internet about manifesting your soulmate, more money, your dream house, losing 50lbs… you name it.
I’m sad to say though, that as awesome as it sounds, most of it’s bullshit.
Don’t get me wrong though. I’m all about manifesting.
I’ve manifested this community, our move to Denver, lots of things.
But I find the way manifesting is talked about is honestly some voodoo B.S.
Let me tell the universe what I want, then I “forget” that I asked for it, then I shall receive.
And for bonus points, I’ll chant naked under the full moon!
Then, once I receive these things that I want to manifest, I’ll be happy because I have what I want.
This might seem like nonsense to you, but I’ve seen it.
Women who are so fed up with dating, and like almost a last stitch effort, decide they are going to write their perfect man list down to the last detail, then let the universe work its magic.
Sorry, that’s not how manifesting works.
So let me ask you a question:
Let’s say I could see into the future and I had your perfect-for-you person sitting right next to me.
If I introduced him to you tomorrow, would you be ready?
Do you have space in your schedule for a relationship or do you always keep yourself busy?
Are you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually ready for that relationship?
Are you the person you need to be to receive the love you want? To have the relationship you want?
More than anything, manifesting is about getting YOURSELF in a place to mentally, emotionally, and spiritually be ready for whatever you want to call into your life.
It’s basically aligning your inner world to what you want your outer world to look and feel like. But you gotta do the inner world stuff first.
I am constantly manifesting things into my life, but I’m not sitting under the full moon naked chanting mantras.
I ask myself who do I need to be or what do I need to do to have what I want to manifest, then I do those things.
More often than not, those things start coming to me.
But it’s not magic.
It’s actually a lot of work. It involves a lot of trust, faith, and elbow grease.
Think about it, if you approach dating from a bitter place, you distrust men, and assume their guilt until they can ‘prove’ their innocence, what kind of partners and relationships do you think you’ll be attracting?
Or, how would you feel if you could tell someone was measuring you up to some arbitrary standard they’ve created?
This is why perfect man lists don’t work, and if you want a deep relationship, I suggest you get rid of yours.
Perfect man lists put the burden on other people to live up to your arbitrary standards.
Not only does this set you up for disappointment, these lists are exactly what make dating feel sleazy and job-interview-esque.
This month, I’m leading a group of women to completely reimagine how they approach their love life. We’ll ditch the perfect man list and I’ll help you actually manifest the relationship you really want.
So if you have no idea what you REALLY want in a relationship or you at least know you definitely don’t want who you’re attracting now, then I hope you’ll join me for the Dating Refresh.
The Dating Refresh is for you if you’re fed up and TIRED of going around in circles in your love life. You’ve spent way too much time dating the wrong guys and putting up with bullshit.
You just need a fresh start to move forward.
For 5 days, I’m going to help you get super clear on what you really need and want in your ideal relationship, so you can start manifesting it into your life.
See you there!
PS – The Dating Refresh is a week-long online experience for women who are fed up and TIRED of going around in circles with dating.
If nothing is working or you don’t know where to start, the Refresh can be your fresh start to move forward in love. Sign up HERE. (It’s free!)