Would it surprise you if I said people pleasers and narcissists are a match made in heaven?

It’s true.

People pleasers are the largest subsection of my clients, and their biggest frustration is attracting narcissists. The bad news is this is a frustrating pattern to break, but the good news is it’s totally breakable.

In fact, if you’re a people pleaser, I’ve got a meditation for you that’ll help you to say NO to others.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why these toxic relationships feel like an addiction and one that’s SO hard to give up
  • The surprising many similarities between narcissists and people pleasers
  • How to end the toxic cycle of getting back into the same relationship again and again for good

Your next steps:

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Resources mentioned in the show:

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    Totally! And remember, there’s a difference between being nice and kind. xoxo

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    Being kind is in my nature and I don’t want to change that.I just need to be able to hold boundaries for myself.Especially with men.I struggle with the amount of selfish people in the world.

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    This is total common sense. I have seen some couples where the woman is fawning all over the man and doting to his every need, and it irks me because these are confident professional women…who I guess are people pleasers. This has given me something to reflect on to determine how much of a people pleaser I am, or even if I have acted like the narcissist at times. Thank you for this information.

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