The Love Incubator

A 6-month journey for women who are ready to dig deep and discover the art of finding love and a lasting, equal partnership in their life.

You’ve psychoanalyzed yourself to death in therapy, have read all the self-help books, and talked to friends ad nauseam.

You know you need to love yourself, be yourself and be confident on dates, blah blah blah, but you wonder, how does one do that?!

At this point, you have a laundry list of things to do and not to you learned from self-help books so long that you feel completely overwhelmed and confused.

To be fair, to some extent, the therapy, books, and talking have helped. You have an idea of why you attract narcissists or emotionally unavailable guys.

But it hasn’t given you that real-world application of how to actually make a change.

And worse, if you’re being honest, you don’t have anyone to talk to about this kinda stuff.

And the streak of bad dates and worse boyfriends isn’t helping. Your friends tell you, “You deserve more!” “Forget him!”

The pep talk feels good for a minute, but it’s not providing the space to really grow and explore the deeper layer of what’s not working.

You deeply want to feel the spark, be with a partner that gets you, and have a deep, mutual attraction.

Your ideal partner is someone who completely respects you, supports your successes, and is there with a shoulder to lean on.

How hard can it possibly be to find someone just to do life with?

Yet, you feel like finding love is completely out of your control. You have no clue what you’re doing wrong and you’re afraid you’ll have to choose between settling or staying single. 

And the loneliness…

If it feels like I’m reading your mind, it’s only because I’ve been there. I struggled in love for YEARS, and have experienced it all: 

A guy too drunk to pick me up for our date (and I agreed to go on ANOTHER date with him… then he did it again, and I BALLED when he dumped me)

Had a boyfriend begin a sentence with, “My next girlfriend…”

Even got a guy who loved me and wanted to marry me, but I couldn’t deal and broke up with him

A boyfriend who told me that I was too emotional and needed to control it better because “he couldn’t deal.”

Was broken up by someone I was crazy about, only to realize I dropped a lot of my friends while I was in the relationship and didn’t have them to lean on when I needed them most

And that’s just scratching the surface, girlfriend.

“Initially, I really hesitated to work with Veronica because it would be like admitting that I had somehow failed at dating + needed help. But the more I thought about it, all of my relationships have a tendency to end in similar ways, so the common thread there was clearly me… so I did need help!

The community has been so awesome and supportive & full of amazing ideas, too! I feel like I have made huge progress in the last month or two when it comes to how I spend my time and energy, so I feel happier and more relaxed in my everyday life.”

Kristen T, Dallas, TX

(Update: Kristen is in a relationship now, and continues to work through her stuff so she can continue having a supportive, loving relationship!)

Kristen T.

Dallas, TX

When you experience failed relationship after failed relationship, it’s hard NOT to think you’re doing something wrong and need to be fixed.

And it’s even harder when you’re going at it alone.

But the more you put this area of your life on the back burner or “fix” your love life with your on-again-off-again relationship with Tinder or with booze, the more alone and stuck you’ll feel.

Then, it becomes easier to fall for his charm because he’s filling that loneliness void all too well.

We all know the relationship will eventually blow up and you’ll cope without doing the deeper work. And the cycle goes on and on.

So I ask you... how much longer are you willing to put up with that?

The one resource in this world you can’t get back is time.

You can lose all your money today and earn it back tomorrow. Not so with time.

If you’re still exactly where you are 6 months from now, how will that feel?

What excuse do you use to hold yourself back? No time? No money? Think it wouldn’t work?

Looking, “fixing” this area in your life isn’t rocket science.

But it DOES take intention, resources, and time.

And this is 100% doable.

You might think you’re too much or too broken, but that’s not just true.

I’ve worked with hundreds of women, and I’ve seen it all. Nothing you can bring me is “too much.”

When it comes to focusing on this area, what’s the REAL resistance making the leap? (Hint: it’s not time or money.)

How Stacey found freedom in finding love:

Introducing the Love Incubator

Finding love doesn’t have to suck, and you don’t have to do it alone anymore.

The Love Incubator is a 1x1 coaching immersion with a group element designed to help you up level ALL the relationships in your life.

By the end, you’ll know what you want in love and how to get it, without worrying about being too much, too masculine, needy, or “emotional.”

You’ll also have 14 new soulful friends you can talk about “stuff” with, AND the tools the create soulful friendships where you live.

In the Love Incubator, we’ll cover topics such as: 

Shifting dating patterns that have you attracting emotionally unavailable men, narcissists, guys who tell you they don’t want to commit then marry the next person they date, and more

Getting over an ex, whether it’s a marriage or a guy you dated for a bit but can’t shake

Defining your boundaries and how to have them respected by men while keeping their interest

Getting clear on what you actually want so you can manifest it into your life

Trusting yourself and others so you can make decisions confidently and know when you can be vulnerable

Healing childhood wounds that have you attracting men like your parents, or repeating your parents’ mistakes (even if it’s the thing you fear most)

Overcoming people pleasing tendencies so you can have healthier and more fulfilling relationships and friendships

How to ask for what you need in a relationship without feeling needy, bitchy, or starting an argument

Making online dating FUN and actually work for you

Dropping your story on why you haven’t found love so you can create a NEW story

Creating deep female friendships and overcoming pain around name calling and gossiping

By the end of the Love Incubator, you’ll feel more like yourself, more confident, and aligned to create what you want in life and love.

In the Love Incubator, you won’t be alone anymore.

You’ll be working closely with me (Veronica) and have the support of a small group of incredible women who are going through the same process with you.

I’ll hold your deepest desires, fears, and worries as sacred. I show up to hold space for you to create the healing and growth you need, and I hold no judgement of your past.

My approach is soft, friendly, yet direct. In fact, I’ve been referred to as your zen best friend who loves yoga and tea, but’ll give it to you straight.

Most transformative of all, you’ll connect with women from around the world to lean on, support, and grow with. When us women raise each other up rather than tear each other down, it’s amazing what we can create.

The Love Incubator is a 6 month 1x1 coaching program with a group element for extra support.

Here’s how it’s delivered:

6 60-minute 1x1 Coaching Calls w/Veronica

Each month in the program, you’ll meet with me 1×1 so we can deep dive into your specific experiences, blocks, and beliefs that are holding you back.

As you work through your blocks, I’ll help you learn how to be more vulnerable, handle rejection, define your boundaries, ask for what you need and want from a relationship, drop old habits and patterns, discover your passion in your career, start/grow a business, and more.

6 Group Coaching Sessions

Once a month, we’ll gather online to share what’s going on for us in love, check in on your progress since your 1×1 call with me, review tools and assignments, connect with each other, and get direct laser coaching from me.

Note: We’ll decide the call times together as a group so we can find a time that works for EVERYONE. We’ll also likely have two times to choose from to accommodate multiple time zones.

Private Community

A private and safe community of other single women to share, get feedback, and become friends. No more being the only single person you know! This will also be the place to get support from me between our sessions.

The Zen Love Workbook

You’ll receive a digital copy of my Find Love Now Workbook. This is a 90+ page beautifully designed workbook filled with soulful exercises and powerful tools we’ll use throughout the 6 months together that will help do what you need to do to attract love.

Accountability Buddies (Optional)

If you desire even more support and accountability, you have the option to sign up for an accountability partner. You’ll be assigned based on similar time zone and availability and meet weekly or biweekly. This is your opportunity give and receive peer support and connect closely with other women in the program.

“Before working with Veronica, I was disappointed in guys + dating generally. I had stopped trusting them + myself to make the right decision on who to date. With each new relationship I would tell myself I wouldn’t lose “me” again but as it progressed I would and also become resentful of who I was dating.

Veronica kept me accountable to stay true to who I am as I started dating again after a bad breakup. In fact, I didn’t even realize how much my ex was holding me back until Veronica pointed that out to me. She helped me to be learn where my boundaries are + the blocks I failed to see that contributed to my last failed relationship. I used to see red flags very early on in dating guys, but I usually ignored them because I really wanted to be in a relationship. Veronica helped me to stay true to myself.

Now, I can foresee potential problems + red flags earlier, and act on them effectively, whether it’s easily letting a guy go or communicating with them about my concern. I no longer will settling with a guy just because of concerns over my age or biological clock.

In the end, I learned how to love myself again. I no longer stay in relationships with the wrong guys because now I truly love myself + know I deserve more. I have already recommended Veronica to others so that they learn what is blocking them from a healthy relationship. I truly feel like love is on its way for me + I finally have the tools to attract + accept the love I desire. Thanks Veronica!”

Diana R.

Dallas, TX

As someone who struggled to find lasting love for years, I totally get it.

Each disappointing date or relationship that didn’t work out hurt extra hard because each time it was reopening my wound of loneliness, leaving a man-shaped void in my perfect-from-the-outside life.

Looking back, I was on autopilot, hoping a man would save me from my mundane life.

Six months before I met my husband Stevie, this guy I’d been dating for about 6 weeks broke up with me, and I was devastated.

I stood in my bathroom sobbing uncontrollably. I couldn’t figure out what I could’ve done that would’ve made him more into me. I mean, those first few dates were incredible!

And the crazy thing: on the last 2 dates we were supposed to have, the guy was too drunk to pick me up! Those dates never happened, and yet, I was STILL heartbroken.

I was on the phone with one of my best guy friends, and what he said to me changed everything:

“Veronica, you’re pissing me off. I don’t get how an accomplished and smart woman like yourself can let this guy get to you. He should’ve felt so lucky to be able to date you, but he was too f*ing drunk to pick you up! Get over yourself!”

Ouch. In that moment, I realized my “problem” wasn’t a lack of a man. Nor would a man solve my problems.

It was MY job to fill the void I felt in my life. No one could do that for me. A few months later when I met my now husband, I didn’t know that he’d “be the one,” but I DID know that things were going to be different. I no longer needed him to feel fulfilled, confident, and worthy.

When you join the Love Incubator, you’ll…

Learn how to be vulnerable and how to BE in a relationship

Know what you want and how to ask for it, without being bitchy or “too much”

Learn how to deal with rejection so the fear doesn’t paralyze you

Release control, worry and doubt so you can enjoy new relationships

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Drop old patterns, so you stop attracting the same guy with a different face

Up level your self care so you can set boundaries and say no when you need to (without feeling bad about it!)

Be able to be happy on your own and not depend on others for happiness

Know when people are no longer beneficial to keep in your life (friends or romantic partners), and easily let go

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Create connection with other women, healing decades of women tearing each other day, and have the tools to create sisterhood in your own community

Lauren says the work we do here isn’t “typical”:

Pam got a crazy, totally unforeseen result:

What’s the secret of the Love Incubator?

It's the community!

You won't be alone.

So often, women tell me they’re the only single person of their friends or they don’t have many good friends at all.

 

The Love Incubator community is filled with amazing women who get you, are experiencing what you are, and are there to be your friend.

 

The women in this group will understand you because they’re struggling with something similar to you. You won’t bond with them over complaining and male-bashing. You’ll bond with them over witnessing each other’s growth and realizing each other’s full potential.

 

You’ll create bonds with these women that could last a lifetime. You’ll no longer only have married friends or be the only single person you know.

 

This is not a course. This is a coaching immersion designed to help you step into your power as a woman to find real love. You’ll learn to see everything you need is inside of you, and not in some book. My job is to pull that inner wise woman out of you so you can create the life and love you want.

How the community impacted Pam:

So is the Love Incubator right for you?

If you can answer "YES!" for most of these, then yes the Incubator is a great fit! Are you...

Committed to making change and doing the inner work to shift your mindset around dating and relationships?

Feeling frustrated after therapy; even though it helps some, it’s not enough real world, practical action?

Not dating and and you have no idea where to start, your dating life feels like one hit wonders, or you’re in a relationship but aren’t sure if it’s really the right one?

Done with the “dating game”, the superficial rules, and lowering your standards to find a man?

Ready to take responsibility for your own happiness and confront the things that are holding you back from attracting healthy relationships, even if it’s scary?

Willing and able to find the time, money, and resources to make it happen?

However, the Love Incubator is NOT a good fit for you if:

You aren’t ready to do the work to make changes in your life.

You think that men or online dating are the problem and you just want me to validate that belief for you. (I won’t.)

You aren’t willing to make time for the program and the effort it requires, or find the money.

You aren’t interested in attracting a lifelong partnership.

“I was afraid of the unknown, and all the “what ifs” popped up in my head. I was insecure that I wouldn’t put the best photos up or say the right thing to attract a high quality man that is right for me.

With Veronica “holding my hand,” I was able to feel more secure in my selections. You warned I might be overwhelmed at the beginning with responses. And oh, that was so true, but I was prepared for that. In the past, I would have thought I had to respond to everything, but now, I hit the delete button with confidence if I’m not interested.

Thankfully no dic pics have been sent to me or anything remotely suggestive. And now, I’ve been dating someone I really like since October 2016!”

Sherri W., Amarillo, TX

Sherri W.

Amarillo, TX

How the Incubator helped Stacey in love and her career:

The Love Incubator can be your last stop on the finding love train.

If you feel called to join the Love Incubator here’s what to do next:

Step 1:

Fill out the interest form below for your Incubator Exploratory call

Step 2:

Schedule your Incubator Exploratory call with me!

Step 3:

Have said call 🙂

Step 4:

If we decide the Love Incubator is a good fit then, you’ll submit your payment, I’ll send you your agreement forms, you’ll join our private Facebook group, and start diving in.

Please note: the Love Incubator is limited to only 15 women so I can offer my full focus to each woman in the group.

Applications close when all 15 spots are filled. The program begins the first week of March 2019

When you enroll early by Thursday, Jan 31st, 2019, you’ll get to join a bonus workshop: Attract More Money + Love.

I look forward to working with you!

Submit your interest form for an Incubator Exploratory Call

IMPORTANT NOTE ON GROUP COACHING CALL TIMES: We’ll find a time that works for EVERYONE. Please don’t worry about the times not working for you, and trust that we WILL find a time that works for everyone.

 

Your investment for the Love Incubator is one payment of $2900 or 6 payments of $515.

Eight month payment plan available to those who enroll by Jan 31st. (We’ll discuss payment options in your Incubator Exploratory Call.)

“I’m a single mom with two girls, and even though I knew working with Veronica was something I truly wanted to do, I hesitated because of the money. After that fleeting thought, I followed my gut knowing this was for me. Veronica had a good vibe and I had listened to her podcasts (repeatedly) throughout the Date Yourself Challenges.

One of the greatest things I learned from Veronica was to identify my needs within a relationship and what that feels like. I was able to forget what my head was telling me, and stayed clear during a date. I focused on how the date made me feel vs. what they looked like on paper.

I really changed my expectations of any date that I went on. I looked at what I could learn about the other person or about myself. My goal each date was to have fun. That totally took a lot of pressure off of me about finding “the one”. It allowed me to be present and not as nervous during the date. I was being my authentic self because I very clear about who I was, what I wanted to feel and I was confident with what I brought to the table. I was happy and fulfilled with myself.

I would try and be more conscious and aware of what I needed to do to make myself feel loved and appreciated. I am more aware of my own needs and ways that I can fulfill my own needs without looking at a partner to fill those needs for me.

I would recommend everyone take this course: married, single, or dating. There are aspects of the course that are so transferable for individual growth and development. Veronica is down to earth and has an amazing approach to dating. I loved that she doesn’t really sugar coat things, and she tells it how it is.

Plus, I met my husband while I was working with Veronica! 🙂

Kaeli Y.

Ontario, Canada

Got a question?

I got answers.

When does enrollment for the Love Incubator close and when does the program actually start?

The Love Incubator starts the first week of March 2019. You’ll schedule your 1×1 calls individually and we’ll determine the time of our group coaching calls as our group comes together.

Applications close when the 15 spots are filled, and early enrollment (your chance to get an extended payment plan and join your bonus workshop: Attract More Money) ends Jan 31st.

There are only 15 spots available, and I do expect them to fill quickly. Please do not delay in submitting your interest form if you’re interested (even if you’re not 100% sure) in joining.

If I enroll early, can I have stuff to work on before the program starts?

YES! When you enroll early, you’ll get access to a recording of the Relationship Deep Dive. That on demand workshop will help you figure out where your blocks are so we know where to focus during your program.

You’ll also get access to the Find Love Now Workbook (90-page workbook of my favorite get unstuck tools and practices) that you can start working through.

What is the investment for the Love Incubator?

Your investment is one payment of $2900 or 6 monthly payments of $515. Extended payment plan options are available to those who enroll by Jan. 31st.

I'm traveling or will miss some of the weeks because of other commitments. Can I still enroll?

It depends.

If you’re traveling and still have access to the phone/internet, you can join our calls from anywhere in the world. You schedule your own 1×1 calls based on YOUR availability. We’ll also find a time for our group calls that works with everyone’s schedule.

Please remember, that this is not a course. This is a coaching program, which means, the value is in the calls. By joining this program, I want you to commit to coming to the calls, including the group calls, as if they were doctor appointments, and only in truly last minute circumstances you miss a session.

If that’s the case, you can submit questions ahead of time and each session will be recorded.

Also keep in mind that your 1×1 sessions don’t roll over. For example, if you don’t use your 1×1 session in March (or you miss it), it does NOT roll over to April. It’s use or lose.

What if I'm not dating or I need to work on myself first?

Let me tell you a little secret: the Love Incubator will help you do what you need to do to “work on yourself” to find love. You’ll learn how to attract high quality men, how to see red flags, how to know if you’re settling, and how to manage texts/online dating. Yes, all the dating things.

This program will help you get to a place where you can start dating again so you don’t make the same mistakes, stay in the same patterns or go after the same types of guys, all with more emotional resilience.

Do I get personalized support?

Yes. I want you to see this as a 1×1 program with a group element. You have 6 private sessions with me, plus my attention in our group calls and private Facebook group. You’ll get customized support for your specific needs.

I’m busy./It’s not a good time./I’m not ready./I can't afford it.

Honestly, in most cases, these are excuses that feel safe to hide behind. Confronting your issues around dating and relationships is scary and will bring stuff up.

You’ll never not be busy or ready, it’s never a good time, and you’ll always feel like you can’t afford it. The truth is, 90% of what we waste our money and time on are the very things causing our suffering and problems we want to solve.

If you’re uneasy about investing in yourself, make sure you listen to this episode on the Love Life Connection where I talk about how I’ve invested in myself and what it was like for me to hire my own coach.

You’ve got to decide if finding love is a priority for you. If it isn’t, that’s totally cool. But if it’s really something that’s important to you, and you tell yourself it’s not, you’re going to be miserable. What you resist, persists.

It’s a fact that we prioritize both our money and time for something that’s truly important. If your gut is telling you want to prioritize working on yourself so that 2019 can finally be the year you find love, I highly encourage you to listen to it and take the leap to guarantee your seat, get the early enrollment bonuses (if you enroll before Jan 31st), and join us in the Love Incubator.

If money is an issue, where can you find the money? Can you cut Starbucks or other frivolous expenses? Pull out your credit card statements and take a look at where your money is REALLY going.

My friends/family figured this out on their own. Why do I need your help?

I love this question. The truth is you don’t NEED any help, my help or anyone else’s. As a coach, it may seem crazy for me to say that no one *needs* coaching. But, a lot of women go to therapy when their love life is crappy, which seems totally “normal.” While therapy is necessary for some people, coaching is much more future and action oriented, which is something I find a lot people actually need. If you have awareness of your issues and could psychoanalyze yourself all day, but aren’t sure what that means in the real world, coaching is a great option for you.

I also know that getting help gets you to where you want to go easier + faster, and to a place that’s deeper + more fulfilling than you previously could’ve imagined

If you feel called to join the Love Incubator here’s what to do next:

Step 1:

Fill out the interest form below for your Incubator Exploratory call

Step 2:

Schedule your Incubator Exploratory call with me!

Step 3:

Have said call 🙂

Step 4:

If we decide the Love Incubator is a good fit then, you’ll submit your payment, I’ll send you your agreement forms, you’ll join our private Facebook group, and start diving in.

Please note: the Love Incubator is limited to only 15 women (6 spots are already taken!) so I can offer my full focus on each woman in the group.

Applications close when all 15 spots are filled. The program begins the first week of September.

When you enroll early by Sunday, Sept 2nd, you’ll get a bonus 30-minute private coaching call with me. ($150 value!)

I look forward to working with you!

Submit your interest form for an Incubator Exploratory Call

IMPORTANT NOTE ON GROUP COACHING CALL TIMES: We’ll find a time that works for EVERYONE. Please don’t worry about the times not working for you, and trust that we WILL find a time that works for everyone.

 

Your investment for the Love Incubator is one payment of $2900 or 6 payments of $515.

Eight month payment plan available to those who enroll by Jan 31st. (We’ll discuss payment options in your Incubator Exploratory Call.)

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