Do you tend to rush into relationships and eventually find yourself overcommitted and losing self-confidence in your pursuit to make your partner happy? When you’re single, everything else can be going great: your work, your health, and your life generally. It seems like the perfect scenario to add someone special to the mix, but you want to stop rushing into a relationship.
When you finally meet someone, you suddenly want to drop everything else in your life and career, and the confidence you feel goes down the drain. If this sounds familiar, then you’ll love this episode! In my coaching call with Nilsa, you’ll discover how to stop rushing into a relationship with actionable tips to help you keep confidently living the life you want.
8:31 – Nilsa describes her self-sabotaging situation
12:00 – The habit Nilsa developed that affected her relationships for a long time
14:46 – How Nilsa’s long “situationship” still affects her today
17:49 – Nilsa’s underlying fear behind not earning love or approval
20:28 – What Nilsa really needed to hear as a child
23:43 – The small shift I want Nilsa to make in her inner child work
26:47 – How Nilsa can prevent overcommitting herself in her relationship going forward
33:20 – Two simple takeaways from this call that you can do right now
After you listen to this episode, here are your next steps:
- Listen to Dating in the Wild Parts 1, 2, 3, 4.
- Join my free Serendipity Challenge here.
- Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
- If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
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