Lots of people have a hate-hate relationship with online dating and believe it’s responsible for their love life woes. But online dating isn’t inherently good or bad. It’s just a neutral space, like a bar or the workplace.

I find that people likely manifest their online dating experience based on their larger relationship pattern which brings me to my caller today, Erin. She’s frustrated because she’s unable to replicate the online dating success her friends enjoy and wants to know what she’s doing wrong. As you listen, though, you’ll discover why online dating practices aren’t her main issue.

10:04 – Erin describes the dating pattern she’s had in relationships

14:06 – The first thing that pops into Erin’s head during a short exercise

16:52 – Why Erin lost her sense of security and how she’s tried to gain it back

21:35 – How Erin’s upbringing led to a lack of trust in her ability to provide security for herself

23:15 – A bit of a woo-woo spiritual exercise I take Erin through

27:31 – The mistake some overly-dependent people can make in relationships

29:05 – How Erin’s view of her parents contributes to the real issue she’s having in her love life

32:18 – Another version of self to look at, besides the inner child

38:20 – Summarizing and expanding on key points from the coaching call

43:35 – Tips for getting people off the pedestal you put them on

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to How to Meet More People Online That You’re Actually Interested In, here are your next steps:

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• Listen to episode 277: “How to Stop Being Jealous of Friends in Relationships with Patty”
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