If you feel you lack feminine energy, you might be conflating it with something else altogether. Recently, my client Amanda asked about how to bring more feminine energy into her love life. But we discovered that the issue isn’t really about femininity but how to let go of needing to be perfect.
Perfectionism can feel like a masculine energy even though it isn’t. So in this episode, I walk Amanda through this confusion and help her release her need for controlling everything in pursuit of perfection. If you can relate to being a perfectionist or have some part of you that you wish to change, you’ll want to give this one a listen.
11:38 – The relationship that plays a huge part in Amanda’s perfectionist tendencies
14:57 – Looking at the phrase “no one’s perfect” in a different light
17:32 – How the perfectionism part of Amanda actually helps her
19:42 – A shift you can make with any part of yourself you want to change
21:50 – Ways in which Amanda has already cultivated her feminine energy
23:58 – Why Amanda tries to control things and what she fears can happen if she doesn’t
27:24 – What Amanda can do when she feels her inner child’s fear and habits coming up
30:26 – A quick recap of the coaching call and highlights of a few key points
33:57 – Going over a couple of important things you might have noticed during the episode
After you listen to How to Let Go of Needing to be Perfect with Amanda, here are your next steps:
- Listen to these previous episodes:
- Read “How to Be More Feminine (Without Being Girly)”
- Sign up for Dating Without Swiping here.
- Get my free 2021 Coaching Services and Pricing Guide to learn how to work with me 1-on-1 here.
- If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
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