You’ve consumed all the information you can find on dating and relationships. Yet, you’re either not attracting the kind of person you want or are still in a relationship you want out of.
Does that sound like you? You’re stuck in a pattern, and to get out of it involves unlearning what got you there and then re-learning new skills.
In this episode, I talk about the four stages of learning any new skill to help you shift patterns that keep cropping up in your love life. But to start the show, I discuss a little about dating someone with different political beliefs, as that’s been an increasingly hot topic among my clients lately.
2:40 – Why dating someone of a different political persuasion isn’t about 100% agreement (and what you SHOULD look for instead)
9:34 – The situation women should avoid getting themselves into when it comes to interpolitical relationships
12:22 – One thing I have clients do when they’re beginning to date again
17:23 – Signs of being in the first stage of learning any new skill: unconscious incompetence
24:15 – How to know that you’re in the second stage: conscious incompetence
28:50 – The third phase of shifting your relationship patterns: conscious competence
33:59 – Briefly discussing the final phase: unconscious competence