You’ve consumed all the information you can find on dating and relationships. Yet, you’re either not attracting the kind of person you want or are still in a relationship you want out of.

Does that sound like you? You’re stuck in a pattern, and to get out of it involves unlearning what got you there and then re-learning new skills.

In this episode, I talk about the four stages of learning any new skill to help you shift patterns that keep cropping up in your love life. But to start the show, I discuss a little about dating someone with different political beliefs, as that’s been an increasingly hot topic among my clients lately.

2:40 – Why dating someone of a different political persuasion isn’t about 100% agreement (and what you SHOULD look for instead)

9:34 – The situation women should avoid getting themselves into when it comes to interpolitical relationships

12:22 – One thing I have clients do when they’re beginning to date again

17:23 – Signs of being in the first stage of learning any new skill: unconscious incompetence

24:15 – How to know that you’re in the second stage: conscious incompetence

28:50 – The third phase of shifting your relationship patterns: conscious competence

33:59 – Briefly discussing the final phase: unconscious competence

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to The Four Stages of Shifting Your Relationship Patterns + A Brief Chat on Interpolitical Dating, here are your next steps:

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