The Dating Mindset Bootcamp

Are you starting to feel like a loving, committed relationship may never happen for you?

The streak of bad dates and worse boyfriends is starting to drag down your confidence and make you feel desperate. But you know you deserve more.

You want to feel the spark, be swept off your feet, and have a deep, mutual attraction.

You want to find someone who completely respects you, supports your successes, and is always there with a shoulder to lean on.

But more than anything you want to feel confident going out with men and like you have some control over who you date (instead of settling for the first guy to show interest).

After finally finding my own true love and guiding dozens of other unhappily single women to do the same, I’ve gotten to know the situation all too well:

Everyone you meet is either emotionally unavailable, stuck in the “friend zone”, or just looking for a hookup.
You’ve been saying things like “I’m a strong woman”, “I don’t need a man!”, or “I’m too busy with my career to be in a relationship” (but deep down you don’t really believe them).
You’ve got a great career, amazing friends, and a life that looks perfect from the outside – but your confidence around dating is nil.
You feel like you’re too fat, too skinny, too ugly, or too crazy for men to find you attractive.
You’re pretty much sick of the whole swiping right thing, getting dressed up only to be disappointed, and feeling like you’re on a job interview when you’re supposed to be having fun.
Or you’re tired of watching all of your friends find The One, get engaged, and tie the knot while you feel like the forgotten bridesmaid, yet again.
If this sounds anything like the story of your not-so-satisfying love life,

then you’re in the right place.

So many incredible women find themselves here.

As someone who struggled to find lasting love for years, I totally get it.

You’ve achieved so much in your life, but the relationship piece continues to elude you.

It’s hard NOT to think that there’s something wrong with you, that you don’t know how to date, or that you’ll have to settle for just good enough.

You’re tired of getting your hopes up, but then having to start over. Another first date. Another awkward “interview” that ultimately leads to more nights alone.

But dating doesn’t have to be a dead end.

You don’t have to waste any more time with the wrong guy. And you definitely don’t have to end up alone.

“I was afraid of the unknown, and all the “what ifs” popped up in my head. I was insecure that I wouldn’t put the best photos up or say the right thing to attract a high quality man that is right for me.

With Veronica “holding my hand,” I was able to feel more secure in my selections. You warned I might be overwhelmed at the beginning with responses. And oh, that was so true, but I was prepared for that. In the past, I would have thought I had to respond to everything, but now, I hit the delete button with confidence if I’m not interested.

Thankfully no dic pics have been sent to me or anything remotely suggestive. And now, I’ve been dating someone I really like since October!”

Sherri W., Amarillo, TX

“Before the Bootcamp, I was trying a lot of different methods in dating but didn’t have a plan or much introspection about who I was or what I really wanted. (Although I thought I did!) I think it was confusing, and it probably sent mixed signals to my dates.

I initially hesitated to join because of the cost, and I’m very educated and successful, and thought I should be able to “fix” this area of my life on my own. The program showed me so much more about what I wanted in a relationship and how to be in a relationship. This program was almost a “life skills” program that I somehow never learned, and now I’m thinking that most of us don’t. You’re also really great about coaching us and not judging.”

Stacey W, Seattle, WA

I’m Veronica Grant, and I work with high-achieving women like you – who want to stop playing games, find lasting love, and create a life-long partnership with someone truly special.

Let’s not kid ourselves here – you and I both know that you do, in fact, want to be in a healthy relationship.

  • You want a best friend to grow forward with.
  • Someone who’s on your level of intelligence and success.
  • Someone you can share your feelings and desires with, and who does the same with you.
  • Someone who doesn’t feel threatened by your success and income.
  • Someone who feels like a true partner in life.

You’ve tried everything you can think of, but the dating websites, the bar scene, and praying to meet your soulmate at the grocery store still haven’t worked. At. All.

You need a new approach to finding love. A process that feels fun, romantic, and actually leads to a meaningful relationship.

Just imagine…

Easily meeting interesting, attractive, successful men who are just as excited to meet YOU.
Filling your calendar with fun engagements and doing things for yourself, rather than waiting around for the wrong guy who may or may not call.
Having the confidence to just be who you are and have fun on dates without worrying about rejection or judgement from the person across the table.
Feeling secure enough to speak up for yourself and stick to your boundaries without feeling like you’re too needy, prudish, or aggressive.
Having thoughtful, real conversations with men instead of fumbling through silly pickup lines or meaningless banter.
Feeling sexy, confident, powerful, and independent JUST AS YOU ARE. No more trying to change yourself in hopes that he’ll notice.

M’dear, this doesn’t have to be a pipe dream.

You aren’t meant to be single.

You can have it if you want it.


Initially, I really hesitated to join the Bootcamp because it would be like admitting that I had somehow failed at dating + needed help. But the more I thought about it, all of my relationships have a tendency to end in similar ways, so the common thread there was clearly me… so I did need help!

The DMB community has been so awesome and supportive & full of amazing ideas, too! I feel like I have made huge progress in the last month or two when it comes to how I spend my time and energy, so I feel happier and more relaxed in my everyday life.”

Kristen T, Dallas, TX

“I loved dating myself, and see it as an important step before getting back into the dating scene. During one of the dates, I realized a big a-ha moment: I’d been playing the victim card, which kept me out of the dating scene for 2 years.

I’ve been so much happier, and I put way less stress on myself, and started putting myself first! I realized I was very short-sighted before. I compared myself to my friends’ relationships, and even to the unrealistic relationships portrayed in movies. I have a completely new outlook to dating, and know that my future husband is out there waiting for me.”

Courtney Y. San Diego, CA

Introducing the Dating Mindset Bootcamp Self-Study

  • A program for driven women who are ready to find love – like yesterday.
  • During this online program you’ll learn a new approach to dating, so you can finally attract the loved one you’ve been looking for.
  • I’ll teach you how to shift your mindset to have more fun, less stress, and more success with the dating process.

When you join The Dating Mindset Bootcamp Self-Study you receive…

6 Modules of Core Content

Each module is designed to teach you the exact steps you need to take to attract quality men & ultimately your ideal relationship.

A Members-Only Site

In this members-only area, you’ll be able to access all the session recordings, bonus trainings, guided meditations, and my recommended resources 24/7.

Lifetime Access to the Material

You get access to this program forever! Each time I update the content or upgrade the member’s only site, you get the upgrades for free.

My Dating Mindset Videos & Meditations

These include visualizations to nail a first date, my 7 step guide to get over an ex, and more!

“Before the Dating Mindset Bootcamp, I dated the same emotionally unavailable men over + over. I even continued dating them when I knew they couldn’t give me what I needed from the relationship. This made me dread dating. I saw it as a huge stressor that required a lot of energy + often left me drained. The best part of the Bootcamp was dating myself.

It’s given me a reason to do things that make me happy in a relationship for myself. I’ve also been able to better prioritize my time – which makes it all the more valuable to a guy when I make time for him. I’m also better about getting outside my comfort zone + accepting dates with guys I typically wouldn’t.

I still haven’t met someone special, but I love how I see each date as a potential opportunity rather than something to stress out about. I still have some inner work to do around my intuition, but I would recommend this program to anyone who has trouble prioritizing themselves in relationships.”

Jennifer A. Dallas, TX

“I was dating but unsure of how to manage the line of asserting my needs without coming off needy. I know that I was also a pleaser, hoping that would land me a partner. Since taking the bootcamp though, I’ve become unapologetically clear in what I want and how to share that in a way that is respectful of my own boundaries.

I was hesitant to spend money on yet another dating/relationship course/program, but the Bootcamp was so good for improving my own self-worth and self-confidence. Plus, in a world full of couples and social media, it’s exhausting to always put on a front of ‘Yes! I’m independent, single and happy about it.’ It’s nice to have a community where you can express your desire for a partner or feelings of loneliness with people who get you, as opposed to making you feel silly, like a loser or say patronizing, unhelpful things.”

Lisa R., Toronto

Join The Dating Mindset Bootcamp Self-Study!

  • 6 Modules to help you find love fast
  • Bonus trainings like how to meditate, how to get over an ex, and how to make it work online

Here’s what we’ll cover in each module:

Module 1: Get Clear on What You Really Want

  • Why your “perfect man” list is keeping you single & how to figure out what’s most important to you in a mate.
  • The law of attraction and how to apply it to your love life.
  • How to spot codependency and avoid those relationships before you get in too deep.
  • How to create the life you want RIGHT NOW, without spending a lot of time or money.

Module 2: Open Yourself Up to Love

  • How to take an inventory of your life to make sure you’re physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually ready for the relationship you want.
  • How to put yourself first without feeling selfish, and why it’s essential to avoiding toxic relationships.
  • How to make time for dating, even if you’re constantly busy.

Module 3: Unblocking Love

  • The 4 types of energy that keep you dating the wrong guys, or sabotaging the right ones
  • The reason you date people like your parents, even if it’s your biggest fear (and what to do about it)
  • The questions you MUST ask yourself to stop your old, unwanted dating patterns
  • How to get into your dating energy sweet spot so you can finally meet The One
  • How to get over your ex so he doesn’t hold you back from dating post breakup

Module 4: Balancing the Venus vs. Mars “Problem”

  • The REAL reason why being a woman in a man’s world is so hard
  • The 7 Feminine archetypes and how to tap into your feminine energy
  • Why an imbalance in feminine-masculine energy is the #1 reason men leave, and how to make sure it doesn’t happen to you
  • 10+ ways to be more feminine, WITHOUT being girly

Module 5: Intuition 101: Trusting Your Gut + Understanding Red Flags

  • Why intuition isn’t all woo-woo, and my 4 steps to strengthen, trust, and act upon your intuition
  • The 2 types of red flags you must know, and how to detect them quickly and accurately
  • The 2 questions you MUST ask yourself to know if it’s safe to be vulnerable with your date
  • How to create a safe space in your relationship to be open and vulnerable

Module 6: Boundaries, Baggage, and Rejection

  • The 4 elements of your ideal relationship blueprint
  • My exact process you can use again and again to avoid settling in a relationship
  • How to ask for what you need in your relationship, WITHOUT starting a fight or argument
  • Why compromising in a relationship doesn’t work, and what to do instead
  • How to stop fearing rejection and bounce back without feeling defeated

Your love story is waiting to unfold.

Join The Dating Mindset Bootcamp Self-Study!

  • 6 Modules to help you find love fast
  • Bonus trainings like how to meditate, how to get over an ex, and how to make it work online

Hi, I’m Veronica Grant, certified health coach, yoga enthusiast, and dating expert.

But before I found my own true love and started coaching other women to do the same, I was in exactly the same place you are today.

In my group of friends, I was always the single one. If I was dating, it was always some guy who was so wrong for me, didn’t respect me, or wasn’t emotionally invested.

Yet I would cling to these bad relationships, terrified of letting them go, and doubting that I would be able to find someone better. I planned my time around his, daydreamed about the idea of how perfect he could be (but clearly wasn’t), and wasted my time over-analyzing his texts, in the process never focusing on or asking for what I wanted.

I also thought that I needed to lose weight, that somehow my body was to blame for my “inability” to attract the right guy. Counting calories and restricting food became an obsession, as I shamed and blamed myself for not being thinner, more beautiful, or more “dateable”.

As we got older and my friends started coupling off, my desperation grew.

I was terrified that I would end up alone, but instead of being honest with myself, confronting my fear, and working through my feelings, I decided to just give up.

I told my friends and family that I wasn’t interested in a long-term relationship, that I had other goals for my life, and that I just wanted to focus on my career.

But the whole I don’t want a relationship thing? It was a big, fat lie.

Pretending to be the strong, single woman was eating away at me during the years I wasted avoiding my desire for a relationship.

The result?

My beliefs that I was flawed in some way, that I was unattractive, and that I needed to change myself only kept me stuck in the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men who didn’t respect me and didn’t want the same things I wanted.

So how did I come to finally step off the hamster wheel of horrible relationships and find the love of my life?

I realized that it was up to me to show men how I wanted to be treated.

I started taking care of my needs first, shifted the belief that there was something wrong with me, and changed my desperate approach to dating. And you know what happened?

My self-esteem skyrocketed.

  • Dating stopped feeling like an emotional roller coaster and actually became fun.
  • I easily let go of guys who I knew weren’t right for me.
  • I was confident and relaxed on first dates.
  • I met my dream guy, fell in love, and got engaged!

Today, I live in Dallas with my fiance Stevie and our rescue pup, Kapha. And I’m committed to helping smart, ambitious women show others how they want to be treated so they can attract the relationships they desire.

“I no longer waste time with guys who I know can’t provide what I need or want in a relationship. My biggest challenge prior to joining Dating Mindset Bootcamp was actually blocking off time to envision what I’m looking for in a relationship + how I want that relationship to make me feel.

I had been meeting new people + going on dates, I hadn’t been intentional about who I was meeting or spending time with. The Bootcamp helped me discover + pinpoint how I want my next relationship to make me feel, and then encouraged me to do small things for myself everyday to feel the way I want to feel. This has been huge.

The Dating Mindset Bootcamp also helped me to uplevel my radical self-care plan. Consistently giving to myself has made me feel more full + whole, which I’m convinced will help me attract a partner who adores + appreciates all of my qualities + quirks, and truly treats me the way I want to be treated.

Veronica is a master at guiding ambitious women to do some very important inner work, because ultimately, a woman’s relationship with a man will simply reflect her relationship with herself.”

Casey B. Calgary, CA

“Before working with Veronica, I was disappointed in guys + dating generally. I had stopped trusting them + myself to make the right decision on who to date. With each new relationship I would tell myself I wouldn’t lose “me” again but as it progressed I would and also become resentful of who I was dating.

Veronica kept me accountable to stay true to who I am as I started dating again after a bad breakup. In fact, I didn’t even realize how much my ex was holding me back until Veronica pointed that out to me. She helped me to be learn where my boundaries are + the blocks I failed to see that contributed to my last failed relationship. I used to see red flags very early on in dating guys, but I usually ignored them because I really wanted to be in a relationship. Veronica helped me to stay true to myself.

Now, I can foresee potential problems + red flags earlier, and act on them effectively, whether it’s easily letting a guy go or communicating with them about my concern. I no longer will settling with a guy just because of concerns over my age or biological clock.

In the end, I learned how to love myself again. I no longer stay in relationships with the wrong guys because now I truly love myself + know I deserve more. I have already recommended Veronica to others so that they learn what is blocking them from a healthy relationship. I truly feel like love is on its way for me + I finally have the tools to attract + accept the love I desire. Thanks Veronica!

Diana R. Dallas, TX

The Dating Mindset Bootcamp is a journey that helps you date smarter, not harder, so you can attract the relationship you desire and deserve that you can complete on your own pace.

The Dating Mindset Bootcamp is perfect for you if:

  • You’re committed to making change and doing the inner work to shift your mindset around dating.
  • You’re done with the “dating game”, the superficial rules, and lowering your standards to find a man.
  • You’re not dating, and you have no idea where to start, or you’re in a relationship but aren’t sure if it’s really the right one.
  • You’re ready to take responsibility for your own happiness and confront the things that are holding you back from attracting healthy relationships.
  • And you’re ready for support and guidance from a professional dating expert, alongside a group of other amazing women

On the flip side, The DMB is not a good fit for you if:

  • You aren’t ready to do the work to make changes in your life.
  • You think that men are the problem and aren’t willing to take personal responsibility for your situation.
  • You aren’t willing to make time for the program and the effort it requires.
  • You don’t like the group setting and would rather do it alone.
  • You aren’t interested in attracting a lifelong partnership.

Committing to yourself is the first step in attracting someone who is completely committed to you.

“After working with Veronica, I’ll never apologize to a man just for being myself.

I have a tendency to date losers who have no money, motivation, self control, or life skills and end up taking care of them in some way. Mainly those aforementioned problems are things that a lot of women run into these days and that I’m not alone.

One of the most powerful outcomes I got from dating myself was that it opened up a dialogue between my friends and me about why we settle for the losers, try to change them and why we let ourselves take responsibility for their feelings.”

Laura P. Asheville, NC

“Veronica helped me to simplify, making dating more fun + natural.

I have a job that requires a lot of time, making it hard to find to date. Since dating myself, I’ve become more aware of my own needs. It made me realize I haven’t treated myself well the past few years, I’ve just focused on working + everday tasks. It was empowering to do more for myself, and to get out of the hustle + bustle.”

Nafeesah H. Asheville, NC

Join The Dating Mindset Bootcamp Self-Study!

  • 6 Modules to help you find love fast
  • Bonus trainings like how to meditate, how to get over an ex, and how to make it work online

30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

I’m so sure in The Dating Mindset Bootcamp that I’m willing to put my money where my mouth is.

If you participate fully in the program and aren’t satisfied with the results after 30 days, I’ll refund your full investment. That’s how confident I am in what I teach.

*Refunds will only be issued if work is completed. You’ll be required to submit completed worksheets and assignments.

Frequently Asked Questions

I’m busy / traveling / pressed for time - should I enroll?
YES! The modules are pre-recorded for you to listen to at your convenience. You can go at your own pace and find a schedule that works for you.
How much time will I need to devote to the program?
Expect to spend one hour minimum each week listening to the modules and completing course work. Of course, the more you put in, the more you’ll get from the program. If dating and attracting a quality relationship are priorities, then you’ll make the time.
How long will I have access to the program content?
You get LIFETIME access to this program.
My friends / family figured this out on their own. Why do I need your help?
The truth is you don’t NEED any help, from me or anyone else. But, as someone who hired my own coach, I know that getting help gets you to where you want to go easier and faster. The right kind of support will help you achieve more success and fulfillment than you ever thought possible.
I don’t know if I can afford this program.

What would it be worth to you to end the anxiety, stress, and discomfort you’re feeling around finding a relationship? Can you put a dollar amount on that? And how much money are you currently spending on takeout and retail therapy on all those bad days you’re having because of relationship issues?

Not only do I believe that you’ll save money once your dating mindset shifts, but I’m also willing to give you a full refund on the program if you don’t see positive results after 30 days of full participation (see my Money Back Guarantee above).

I’m asking you to step out of our comfort zone for a moment and seek support to get into the relationship you want this year.

What if I’m in a relationship or married? Is this program right for me?
Yes! I am also in a committed relationship. While the context of this program will be geared towards women who are dating, I use every single tool in my own relationship and life. I see the benefit 100x over in my own relationship, as it allows us to go deeper, connect more, and have more fun being together.
What if I’m in the LGBT community?
Because it’s from my own experience, I speak as a woman who is attracted to a man. However, this program is about relationships. It doesn’t matter if it’s 2 men, 2 women, or a woman and a man – the content is relevant for everyone. As such, whether you are gay or straight, you will be able to use the tools I teach in this program to have the relationship you desire.
What other benefits can I expect from this program?

Many of the women I’ve worked with have experienced an improvement in ALL of their relationships – with friends, family, and at work. Some have gained the confidence to start new businesses, ask for and receive raises and promotions, and set better boundaries in every area of life.

The program will teach you how to establish self-care routines, which often leads to more energy, improved moods, and better overall health.

Are you ready to feel better than you have in years AND find the relationship you’ve been craving?

Join The Dating Mindset Bootcamp Self-Study!

  • 6 Modules to help you find love fast
  • Bonus trainings like how to meditate, how to get over an ex, and how to make it work online

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